I happened along a big flat rock and decided to do a bit of sunbathing and since nude was mode of the day and no one was around. However, it became apparent that arousal was near so I dismissed myself, put on my shorts and went for a cool-off walk in the woods. I tried to just remain neutral but after awhile I got concerned about my physical attractions, and well, one of the women kept looking at my man-dangle - this, I found, I liked. Disrobing with my female co-workers, people whom I genuinely liked a lot as platonic friends, was an interesting experience. Turns out that the site was clothing-optional At one point half the group stayed at the picnic area yet myself, another guy and three women decided to head to the springs. Mid-stay a group of co-workers decided to go up into the mountains and picnic near natural hot springs.
Many years ago I spent two weeks at a job site hundreds of miles from my residence near the Rockies. Email See actually happened although I wish parts of it had been more overt.
When one incident threatens an entire marriage, there's usually a deeper issue that needs to be addressed. If you still can't put this behind you, then counselling for you is the next necessary step. Your husband has since made some right moves but should also assess his drinking pattern in general. You've let this event rake up your every insecurity from the past, as if one mistake (albeit a true disappointment) has destroyed an image of perfection you've held on to for dear life. He's made that promise, you believe him and the rest of your anxiety is about you beating yourself up. The only one that matters is that your husband never again be so drunk that he has no self-control or later recollection. You're chewing on this incident for the wrong reasons. Yet, there had to be something that attracted him to her instead of me, right? I just want to move past this. He's promised to never again drink to that excess. My self-esteem has plummeted to feeling insecure and extremely unattractive. I'm not a jealous person and my head knows he was drunk and messed up. I know he loves me and honestly believe he'd never cheat. He's insisted he doesn't find her attractive. He's cried, apologized profusely, offered to never see that couple again and to get counselling. He'd been so drunk that he didn't remember acting this way, with the exception of her leaning in to kiss him and that he nearly fell over stepping away to avoid her. Though we were all pretty intoxicated, I don't know why I didn't tell him to knock it off – until the next day. Yet several months ago, at another couple's home where the wife habitually "hangs" on other men when she drinks, my husband was her target and he reciprocated her flirtations and ignored me the rest of the evening. Q: My husband of six years is my soulmate we've had an affectionate and loving relationship.
If you participate or watch, you give permission to crossing the sexual boundaries you've had until now, so be prepared that this will affect your marriage in some way.Īlso, think ahead: if he is gay, how would you react? He may be drawn to experimentation for this one time only or he may be questioning his own sexual identity. But he must answer for both your sakes, and soon. The way that he explained it, I wouldn't be very involved.Ī: Only your husband can answer that question, despite the labelling that others would apply immediately. Q: Recently, my wonderful husband of 10 years expressed his interest in pursuing a sexual experience with another man, with me present.